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After 28 years of marriage, our love remains unwavering, with God as the foundation guiding every step of the journey. Through the ups and downs of raising a teenage son and a pre-teen daughter, we continue to support and strengthen one another. My wife’s constant support and grace have been a blessing, especially as I learn and grow in my role as a husband and father. Her patience, love, and prayers remind me daily that I’m not walking this path alone. Together, with faith l

Heal: A Man Can’t Heal What He Didn’t Break! Heal: A Woman Must Heal Before Expecting a Man to Heal Her

Dear Mom,

In a conversation with my 12-year-old grandson, Laurence, I asked him, “What do you need from your mom?” Laurence replied, “She does so much for me, so the only thing I need is proper care.” I then asked him to explain what he meant by "proper care." Laurence said, “I need her to take care of me. To feed me, to give me a house to live in, and to love me.” I was impressed by his answers.  The word “proper,” by definition, means satisfactory or correct. What he is saying is tha

In our world, the word “submission” can be misunderstood and seen as a prison, a weakness, oppression, or the loss of identity. Nevertheless, in the Bible, submission carries a much deeper and more empowering meaning. It is not about domination or control; it is about trust, love, and the order God has designed for healthy relationships, especially in the church, the family, and marriage.

The entrepreneurial mindset is more than just a business word; it's a unique blend of qualities that drive individuals to identify opportunities, take calculated risks, and create something new. It's the spark that ignites innovation, propels businesses forward, and shapes the future.  Creating innovative solutions to solve today’s difficulties.

One common observation made by men about women is that they sometimes talk too much. Studies have shown that in a woman’s brain, there is a 23% larger volume in Broca's area (in the dorsolateral prefrontal cortex) and a 13% larger volume in Wernicke's area (in the superior temporal cortex) compared to men. Additionally, in the areas of the brain responsible for language and hearing, female subjects were found to have 11% more neurons than males (Witelson et al., 1995). Could

In the delicate dance of relationships, it's vital to acknowledge the profound impact that love—both its embrace and its absence—can have on both men and women. As a man reflecting on the intricate nuances of these connections, I find it's essential to speak directly to the women out there who have loved deeply, only to be met with misuse or disregard. You are not alone, and what you have experienced doesn't define you.

This one’s for the women who don’t get the recognition they deserve. The ones holding it down when no one notices. The women who aren’t flexing or chasing validation. The ones who are praying while everyone else is partying. The ones pouring from an empty cup, yet still showing up, grinding, believing, and being exactly who God made them to be. This is for the good women.

Men have to be careful when dealing with a woman expressing her needs. There are two very different types of reactions you may receive from her while she is expressing herself. One is the damsel in distress, and the other is a bear in a trap. You see, when she is most vulnerable and wants to be understood, you will see the damsel in distress. The damsel in distress doesn’t necessarily need to be rescued, but there are distress calls that need to be heard. These distress calls

What men want? Most everyone, especially women, feel that they know exactly what is on a man’s mind 99% of the time. Women may have a ‘general’ idea, and women may not be far from the truth always, but to say you know what is on a man’s mind even majority of the time does absolutely nothing to account for what he may never admit, which is the unobvious.

The wedding is the most exciting event: the unexpected proposals, the rings, and the planning. Bridal showers, bachelor parties, and bachelorette parties lead to the big day when you are joined together to start a happy life. The honeymoon is nearly magical, extending beyond the vacation as you remain in puppy love during the honeymoon phase. The two can't get enough of each other. As husband and wife, they want to present their best selves, going out of their way to ensure s

In a world where partnerships often navigate the complexities of individuality, one dynamic can be particularly transformative, and that’s when a man finds himself sharing his life with a woman who is a force of nature.  Women who are a “Force of Nature” exude a unique strength, characterized by their passion, resilience, and unwavering determination. They can be trailblazers in their careers, nurturing leaders in their communities, and/or fiercely supportive friends. Their e

Over the past twenty-plus years, I’ve been entrusted to serve as a mediator between couples and have discovered that one of the greatest hindrances to is the inability to communicate effectively one’s needs. It’s important to recognize that how relationships start is not necessarily how they end. Life brings about changes and challenges in health, age, loss of life, children, etc. These changes can be life-altering and highlight the necessity of communication and its effects

I am a firm believer in shared finances within a committed partnership. My wife and I have been together for 13 years, three of which we have spent as a married couple. From the moment we moved in together and took our relationship to the next level, I suggested we open a joint bank account. My girlfriend at the time (now my wife) agreed, and thus began our journey towards shared financial responsibility.

Sound the alarm; there has been a security breach. A security breach, by definition, is an incident that results in unauthorized access. In other words, it’s a break-in. The Lovely Lady Magazine interviewed Anthony Jermaine Collins, also known as “The Bishop,” who spoke candidly about the alarming rise in divorce and separation rates in the church. Marriages are not bonded as they should be. The security of how relationships were intended to be has been compromised. Mankind h

How do you know when a man really cares for you? YOU KNOW, but sometimes you’re too afraid to move on from the ones who don’t. To answer one question, I always ask myself five questions to help me get to the answer I think makes sense. “How do you know when a man really cares for you?” is the question. But to answer that, I needed to ask myself:

My husband and I were traveling home from a funeral when we suddenly drove into a snowstorm on the highway. We were driving in the early morning before the sun came up, and in addition to the heavy snowfall, visibility was poor. We both immediately began to panic. I urged my husband to slow down because he seemed to be driving a bit too fast. He complied, adjusting the headlights to improve visibility. While it didn’t help much, he continued to drive. As we progressed, the st

I am a recent divorcee over 50, and I find that dating at this age is complicated. I hear many women complaining about dating, but men have complaints too. In society, there’s a rule that men can’t complain too much, or we’re considered soft. However, I’m going to express what a lot of men are thinking. Let me break down the costs associated with taking a woman on a date—costs that many women may not have considered.

Yeah, women do pretty much everything us men can’t. Most of my male friends don’t know how to have an emotional conversation with another man but can talk a woman’s ear off about how they feel. I’m the same way. My mother taught me everything I know and homeschooled me, so it’s much easier for me to be friends with women and emotionally confide in them for that reason.